I’m used to traveling a lot for work and pleasure before having kids and knowing my spouse – and I do missed those carefree days – where I only shop for myself and eat for myself and think only about myself. Life is quite different when you have kids and a spouse and mortgages etc., but this is life isn’t it. But if the spouse doesn’t bring you on vacation on a regular basis, you would want to go on your own with your friends right? most people loved to travel while others don’t – so what do you do if the spouse and the kids don’t like to travel? the best thing to do is to find some other friends that you can travel with. And as my kids grew older – I go on more trips with my friends instead of the spouse – but that also means that you get to meet other people when you travel with your friends – so how many of you are going to restraint yourself from having some fun?
I love a little bit of paradise too sometimes and to be looked at differently – as a real woman not just a spouse and the mother of your kids or the one who does the housework and the laundry. So men out there take care of what you do with your spouse and for her – else she might try to find a little paradise elsewhere – I’ve seen my friends do it – and I can’t really blame them for it – for they don’t get any fun at home. Is it wrong? of course it is – but we are only human – and all humans loved to feel special every now and then.