I asked myself constantly why should I get so upset when a friend’s husband is cheating on her and they are in the midst of a divorce. Many a times I feel like going online and screaming at the woman and the cheating husband because my friend is so timid and the cheating husband is telling everyone that she is at fault because she wanted a kid. Yes, very selfish, uncalled for and truly an asshole but what has all these gotta do with me right? why should I get so upset and in fury about it. Am I too involved, too emotional – or have too much time on hand (definitely not) so what is this have to get involved and meddle with other people’s business? I really have to learn to mind my own business and be a good friend and just listen to what my poor friend wants to do instead of giving suggestions and fueling the fire and thus hurting her and on the other hand – I definitely need to lay off on doing good for people – and instead concentrate on my own family and myself. Haven’t I learned my lesson many a times by now – the spouse asked me the other day.