Since it’s hard to buy for the spouse as he travels more than I, I decided to get him some music gifts but it has to be unique. The spouse never did ask for anything in particular but I could probably order the above coffee table for him as my gift for his next birthday, for what do you buy someone who has everything and more internet savvy than I . But I can’t go wrong with music gifts for he loves his music tremendously. I guess, if we ever go broke, he can busk for money.
My kids are all very good at taking care of whatever belongs to them. They never once misused or mis-treat their toys or musical instruments. I really lucked in on that part because I didn’t need to stress how important it is to take care of whatever we’ve paid for them. So when I saw this bass humidifier in the music room, I knew immediately that it was my son who had bought it for this bass guitar.
I’ve seen my friends’ kids destroying their toys and not taking care of even very expensive musical instruments , therefore, when I see my kids going the extra mile and looking after our investment, I’m one happy mama here.
Koreans are well known for their cosmetics and skin care and if you are in Korea and you don’t pack some home, then you are not being too smart. This brand is quite new to me but not new to the Koreans apparently. You must be wondering why a woman would need to try so many types of cosmetics and skin care, well, if we want to look some what presentable, we have to. Plus , we women loved shopping and making ourselves look pretty. More on this new Korean brand soon.
As soon as the spouse saw this in his buddy’s apartment, he came home and said he wants one too ! Yup ! like a child, he went online looking for a jtv , if you don’t know what it is by now. The original price was like USD $1999 and now on sale for only USD $999, so I told him to go ahead and get it if he really wants it. I too like the color and if what he said about the JTV is as good as it sounds , then I think it would definitely be a great buy. This new collection would definitely complete our collection of the many great guitars we’ve purchased throughout the years.
Maybe? the car wouldn’t start sometimes and it has happened twice already. The car needs an inspection soon too, and I’m pretty sure it’s not going to pass and some repair work is required. I do love our old car but a new car may be in order. We’ve had our old car for about 6 years now and the kids are getting a wee tired of the old car except for the oldest who insist that we give him the old car if we get a new one. So a lot of test driving soon.
Who out there gives Easter presents? Raise your hands if you are with me, even if you don’t give presents to friends and family, it’s ok to get yourself some. Why ? because during Christmases, you are always so busy getting gifts for everyone else except yourself, so this is the time to settle down and find yourself something you liked and had wanted to get for yourself for the longest time.
So off I went in the pretext of shopping for family for Easter but actually, I went out to get something for myself. And as you can see here, it’s more than something but I figured hey ! i deserved it and more. I’ve been working so hard and cleaning my home and taking care of the kids and the extended family, it’s time to take care of myself. Afterall, if you don’t pamper yourself once in a while , who is?
I don’t get to eat this as often as I would love to but once in a while when I am traveling in San Francisco, I would definitely stop at Chinatown and have some of my dough fritters and coffee – the Asian style. Brings back so many memories when I was younger and lived in Asia. My parents and forefathers grew up eating these but of course, not in such style, it came wrapped in paper usually just old newspaper and an old ceramic cup.
Life was pretty simple then and never did I think that I would migrate so far away but I knew that I didn’t want to stay put in Asia when I grow up. I knew for sure that I wanted to marry someone from the West because I’m such a outspoken person.
So my kid calls me from school and said to me to get some stands for music for her school music band and I said sure. Afterall, how much can a couple of stands cost right? I figured I would be doing my part as a parent for the school, so out I went to get some music stands for them but of course, I didn’t get the right color *slap forehead*. I figured the colorful ones would be rather outstanding but all they wanted were regular colors ones, meaning black. So I had to bring the music stands back and found some regulra colors ones and brought them back to the school. Mannnn! these kids are so hard to please these days.
We are all for music lessons for all our kids and if they wanted to try something new, we first sit them down and talk to them about the cost and also to see how serious they are in taking the class and not just because one of their friends are doing it. Normally, my kids have a good head on their shoulder but once in a while they kind of surprise us with, lets just say different thinking. Parenting is all about compromising and bringing out the best in your kids and hoping that they will grow up to be good adults with responsibility and accountability in whatever they do or purchase.
So when the youngest asked for classical guitar lessons and guild classical guitar , we told him that we will provide the classes but he needs to save up for the guitar. So all during the summer, he mowed the lawns of our neighbors and his grandparents and did odd jobs here and there and was a hobo and collected recycle bottles. Now don’t get me wrong, we are not mean parents or stingy parents but by doing this, we are building character in our kids, everyone of them did that at one point or another in their lives. And thus far, they never come to think that money grows on tree and they know that they have to work for stuff and that nothing just land on their lap. I don’t know how other parents method of teaching are but this is how our rules are around our home.
When I travel for work, the first thing I do when I get some free time is to go shopping for my kids. They always have a list of things for me to pick up for them and like any mums out there, we head straight to the store to pick up their stuff first before even thinking of ourselves. This trip to New York, I was asked to pick up some Clayton Guitar Picks for them because they can’t find any locally. I’m glad they have it at the first music store I went into but I guess they are a lot more popular in the States than over here in Canada. The picks are also cheaper than the ones that I’ve been buying for them locally too, so I picked up like a dozen for them and their friends. Yes, I’m that kind of mom, who is very generous to all my kids’ friends, that’s why they loved me most. And you can be sure , I will know what my kids are up to from their friends – my way of bribing them – hahaha!