So my kid calls me from school and said to me to get some stands for music for her school music band and I said sure. Afterall, how much can a couple of stands cost right? I figured I would be doing my part as a parent for the school, so out I went to get some music stands for them but of course, I didn’t get the right color *slap forehead*. I figured the colorful ones would be rather outstanding but all they wanted were regular colors ones, meaning black. So I had to bring the music stands back and found some regulra colors ones and brought them back to the school. Mannnn! these kids are so hard to please these days.
We are all for music lessons for all our kids and if they wanted to try something new, we first sit them down and talk to them about the cost and also to see how serious they are in taking the class and not just because one of their friends are doing it. Normally, my kids have a good head on their shoulder but once in a while they kind of surprise us with, lets just say different thinking. Parenting is all about compromising and bringing out the best in your kids and hoping that they will grow up to be good adults with responsibility and accountability in whatever they do or purchase.
So when the youngest asked for classical guitar lessons and guild classical guitar , we told him that we will provide the classes but he needs to save up for the guitar. So all during the summer, he mowed the lawns of our neighbors and his grandparents and did odd jobs here and there and was a hobo and collected recycle bottles. Now don’t get me wrong, we are not mean parents or stingy parents but by doing this, we are building character in our kids, everyone of them did that at one point or another in their lives. And thus far, they never come to think that money grows on tree and they know that they have to work for stuff and that nothing just land on their lap. I don’t know how other parents method of teaching are but this is how our rules are around our home.
When I travel for work, the first thing I do when I get some free time is to go shopping for my kids. They always have a list of things for me to pick up for them and like any mums out there, we head straight to the store to pick up their stuff first before even thinking of ourselves. This trip to New York, I was asked to pick up some Clayton Guitar Picks for them because they can’t find any locally. I’m glad they have it at the first music store I went into but I guess they are a lot more popular in the States than over here in Canada. The picks are also cheaper than the ones that I’ve been buying for them locally too, so I picked up like a dozen for them and their friends. Yes, I’m that kind of mom, who is very generous to all my kids’ friends, that’s why they loved me most. And you can be sure , I will know what my kids are up to from their friends – my way of bribing them – hahaha!
A month ago I was in the city and saw a bag that I loved so much and wanted to buy it but since I know that Roots does this customer appreciation thing every now and then, I decided to wait. I could afford it of course, but do i need that bag so much that I couldn’t wait to save some money. So today, I ordered the bag from Roots at 30% discount and that means less $90 which i can use to buy something else if i chose to. Am I stingy or am I just shopping smart? I say I’m just shopping smart and wished everyone would do the same. Plus I wished everyone wouldn’t shop for something they don’t need just because they want it when they don’t have the money for it. Some people use their credit cards to buy things because they don’t have the money for it and that I have to say is very stupid. I wished my kids wouldn’t do that either when they are older, that is such a huge mistake.
Very expensive in my humble opinion! At about $10 for this scope of soft serve ice cream , one can only afford to eat this once in a while. But I have girlfriends eating them on a daily basis and cannot live without their elite soft serve ice cream that opened its door just opposite our office. What a sin! lucky for me, i’m not overly crazy about it and can do without it, I pity the co-workers who’ve been spending tons of money at this ice cream store and although it is very good, I just wouldn’t succumb to paying $10 for a scope of ice cream. I would indulge in a lot of food but I can’t stomach such an expensive ice cream. What about you? what is your latest indulgence?
Christmas is round the corner, as many of my friends’ facebook status said and even though Thanksgiving is not here yet, I like to be prepared for Christmas because every year , we pay so much attention to Thanksgiving that we forget to get what we need for Christmas as well. So this year, I’m way ahead of all my friends and picking and choosing my Lemax villages and having them shipped to me before the Christmas rush. I don’t want to be caught in the rush and not having my christmas decorations not arriving on time.
Preparing for my trip to Italy , and this is what I will be wearing for my autumn night. It had to be a little business like and of course, since it is cocktails and dinner, one have to dress up abit and autumn is usually cold in the evening, so this girl is bringing my coat too. My kids just complained that I’m obsessed with dressing up for the occasion but you can’t blame me for it because people would judge you for what you wear and how you represent your company and yourself.
I helped my best friend get some gold wedding bands from here and will be attending his fall wedding. I cannot believed that this is going to be the 10th wedding I’ve attended this year. Everyone I know seems to be getting married and I’m indeed very happy for them all but why oh why do they have to get married on the same month. So I’m glad that at least one of them is getting married in late fall , when the weather is a lot cooler here.
Can you imagine having an outdoor wedding in scorching sun ? it’s no fun, the fall is awesome and it was definitely easy to help my best friend to get those wedding bands because we didn’t have to walk from store to store or fly to Hong Kong to get a pair for another set of couple who insisted on 926 gold and diamond band.
My oldest came home for the summer holiday and told me that he could use a Bose headphones for the summer and since they were On Sale I figured I should get it for him as a reward for doing well in college. He usually doesn’t ask for a lot but having said that we always make sure that all our children have more than they ask for. But it is on sale, so yes, I will buy the headphones for him because we all know that Bose has the best speakers and anything audio, I myself have been in love with Bose ever since I found out about their cube speakers from 20 years ago. When we buy anything at all, we make sure we buy for the quality and not the quantity.